HOW TO DO A GREAT FIRST DANCE

FIRST WEDDING DANCE ADVICE FROM THE EXPERTS

Every bride and groom should enjoy dancing together for the first time as husband and wife, but it isn’t always the case as the thought of the wedding guests watching your every move can be a nerve wracking prospect. Here is some help and advice to avoid a first dance nightmare...

HAVE A GO!

One evening at home grab your partner and pretend it's your first dance. Get used to dancing together, make up some moves and get to know your song really well.

YOUR SONG

Your first dance song should mean something to both of you. Double check the lyrics in case your song is about breaking up, it's surprising how many songs seem romantic but lyrically they aren't! A song with a clear, steady beat will make dancing together much easier for you. 

QUALITY NOT QUANTITY

The ideal length for a first dance is 2-3 minutes, any longer and your guests will get distracted. A brilliant short dance is much better than a mediocre long dance, it's got more impact and you'll look more confident as you'll know the steps better as there are less of them to remember. If your song is longer than 2-3 minutes, ask your DJ to fade the music or invite your guests to join you on the dance floor for the rest of the song.  

READY, CAMERA, ACTION!

Film your dance lessons and/or practice sessions so you can watch back and ensure you're doing it correctly... you'll be surprised how good you look!  

PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT

The more you practice, the greater your confidence and smoother your movements will be. Knowing your dance really well will make it look more comfortable and natural on the day. Plus you'll have much more fun knowing you can relax and not worry about your first dance. Also, if you can, practice in shoes that are similar to the ones you'll be wearing on your wedding day.  

HEY MR DJ.....

If you're doing a choreographed first dance let your DJ know so they play your track in full from the start, rather than fading it in. Copy your track onto a blank cd and label it to avoid any confusion, ask someone trustworthy to give it to the DJ on the day. 

PICTURE PERFECT

Don't forget to let your photographer know a few details about your first dance so they can be ready to get some great shots of key moments, such as dips, twirls and for brave couples maybe even a lift!

DON'T STOP MOVING

If you make a mistake, keep dancing! The chances are that only you will know it happened. Just relax, breath and recover as you want to have fun and enjoy the once in a lifetime experience that is your first dance on your wedding day. 

IF YOU'VE NO IDEA & TWO LEFT FEET, GET HELP!

It's quite normal these days for couple take some lessons to learn how to dance together in preparation for their first dance, to find out more click wedding dance lessons.

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We specialise in wedding dance lessons, providing dance lessons for a couple’s first dance at their wedding. Our lessons are private, professional and available in all UK locations, one of our experts will even teach you in the comfort of your own home. You don’t need any previous dance experience and lessons are scheduled for dates and times that suit you. 



HOW TO DO A PERFECT FIRST WEDDING DANCE

HOW TO DO A PERFECT FIRST WEDDING DANCE

Choosing a first wedding dance song

You'll remember your first dance for the rest of your life so it's really important that you love your first dance song. Make sure you listen to the lyrics, as some some songs are surprisingly unsuitable, for example Angels by Robbie Williams features the lyrics "and I feel that love is dead, I'm loving angels instead".

How long should be first dance be?

The most common first dance disaster is dancing for too long. Whether you've had a dance professionally choreographed or are winging it with a cuddle and a sway, your guests attention will only last so long, as will your ability to remember the dance steps. Therefore the ideal length is no longer than 3 minutes, it's much better to have a fabulous short dance than a long mediocre one. Most songs last more than 3 minutes so why not finish off your first dance by asking the DJ or singer to invite the guests to join you on the dance floor for the rest of your song.

Why take first dance lessons?

Your first dance is the last moment of your wedding day when all eyes are upon you, so it's a shame to shuffle about in circles looking embarrassed when you could be dancing with confidence and style, putting on a great show for your guests and getting the party started. Learning to dance with the person you love is so romantic and dance lessons are a great way to get some time together away from all the stress of wedding planning. Having your dance professionally choreographed means you will know exactly what to do on the dance floor and the dance will suit your ability and natural style, making you look your very best in front of all your family and friends.

How to make your first dance 'you'

Your wedding day is so personal and many couples like to put an individual stamp on their day. Music is a great way to add a personal touch. For example, you can refer to hobbies, interests, heritage, culture and family traditions through your choice of song. We once choreographed a couple who love to play hockey, so we incorporated their hockey sticks into the dance, they even did lifts using the sticks! You can also show your personality via the mood of your song, by going for uplifting, serious or happy songs.

Wedding Day Dance UK offer professional, private dance lessons in all UK areas, their choreographer will even teach you in the comfort of your own home on days and times that suit you. For more information on their wedding dance lessons visit http://www.weddingdaydanceuk.co.uk/